10 Reasons Why, Despite Their Bad Rap, Dating a Gemini Could Be the Best Move You Ever Make

By Candra Anaya

Image by Kimberly Fizzart

First, I will confess. I am a Gemini. But before you jump to thinking I am completely biased, read on, and learn why I am just as likely to tell you 10 reasons how I can royally suck.

10. WE ALWAYS SEE BOTH SIDES

Yes, it’s true, Geminis are best known for being twins. While we usually get a bad rap for being two-faced, the truth of the matter is this: Because of our twin nature, not only can we see both sides of the story, we can also understand and identify with both sides. This makes us an amazing partner, as we will always take into consideration our lover’s point of view as equally as our own.

9. WE TALK UNTIL THE COWS COME HOME

Gemini is an air sign, ruled by Mercury, the planet best known for overseeing communication. As your partner, we will talk about absolutely anything. And everything. Again. And again. Do you want to talk about things as mundane as what you’re going to wear to work? No problem. Or as deep as your favorite Aunt Gertrude who just got diagnosed with a terminal disease? We gotcha. We are in the conversation wholeheartedly, no matter how big or small the topic may be.

8. WE WILL MAKE SURE THE WORLD KNOWS HOW GREAT YOU ARE

Like I said before, Geminis love to talk. If someone does right by us, the rest of the world will hear about it. As your partner, nothing pleases us more than boring our friends to tears by telling them every great thing you have ever done, even if it makes them jealous. That awesome, homemade, gluten-free cake you slaved over for my birthday? Yeah, that will get you brownie points for years to come.

7. WE ARE FUNNY AS HELL

Since Geminis have such a way with words, this talent lends itself in many great directions, humor being one of them. Geminis are incredibly sassy, quick-witted, and can bring sarcasm, it’s very self, to its knees laughing. As your partner, you can come home from work on the worst day of your life and we can have you laughing about it in five minutes or less. Okay, if it’s truly the worst day of your life, give us 10 minutes.

6. WE ARE THE LIFE OF THE PARTY

This trait comes particularly in handy for those of you that are introverts. Going to parties and social situations can be painfully awkward for introverts. Insert here your Gemini partner. I can assure you your Gemini partner will be more than happy to chat it up and make people laugh all evening long. You get to hang back, relax, and enjoy the show.

5. WE HAVE A STRONG BALANCE OF FEMININE AND MASCULINE ENERGIES

Geminis are likely to display as many masculine traits as feminine ones, no matter which gender they are.

Is dating women your thing? Find yourself a Gemini woman and she is likely to be strong, outspoken, and publicly supportive of who you are. Is dating men your thing? Find yourself a Gemini man and he is likely to voluntarily listen to and analyze your feelings at great length- all without force or therapy! Honest. You may even need to gag him if you’ve had enough processing by the end of the day.

4. WE ARE QUICK LEARNERS

Does intelligence turn you on? Find yourself a Gemini partner, and find yourself in continually stimulating conversations. Geminis actually learn from all the talking we do. Because we readily engage those that are different from us, we are constantly learning about new people, places, and cultures and loving every minute of it.

3. WE LOVE TO TRY NEW THINGS

Want to learn how to ballroom dance? Bake a carb-free casserole? Take a trip across the country? As your Gemini partner, we will always say yes! We are known for being a Jill or Jack of all trades for a reason: because we love to learn. How better to acquire new skills than by good, old-fashioned hands-on learning?

2. WE LOVE TO TRAVEL

Whether it is a day trip to the nearest urban city or a road trip to a gambling state, a Gemini is always ready to travel! Because we love to try new things, we are as likely to go on a safari as we are to go on a retreat to an East Indian ashram.

  1. WE HAVE AWESOME SEX

Geminis are hopelessly romantic. We pull out all the stops. I’m not talking flowers here folks. I’m talking: you-come-home-from-work-to-find-a-bathtub-filled-with-warm-water-sensual-oils-and-floating-flowers-with-a-trail-of-drizzled-daisies-leading-you-from-the-tub-to-the-bed-that-is-covered-in-rose-petals, type of romantic. The nine other reasons above all apply here. We will happily gaze upon both sides of you, whisper in your ear whatever turns you on most until YOU come home, all the while making sure you know how great you are. We will even make you laugh. C’mon! When is the last time you laughed during sex? It’s awesome! We’ll happily bring the party to you in the bedroom by applying our strong balance of feminine and masculine energies. We’ll make love to you in a way that is as deeply emotional as it is physical. Love being kissed on your glabella? Simply ask. We are quick learners and we love to try new things. We’ll travel your body like a wonderland. Yes, I really did just say that. If you don’t believe me, ask any of my exes.

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