DearQueer~ Can I Marry a Widow?

Gayly Giving Advice Straight from the Heart ~ January 2024

DearQueer,

I have an amazingly kind and beautiful woman in my life. I often daydream about growing old in her arms, as I know it would be a place of great love and comfort. She tells me she only wants me, but I find this hard to accept because every day I feel I am competing with her deceased wife.

We were friends for quite some time before becoming romantic, so I knew she was a widow early on. Since I was her friend first, I…