DearQueer~ Is Being Gay a Choice?

Gayly Giving Advice Straight from the Heart ~ May 2024

Candra Anaya
4 min readMay 3, 2024

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DearQueer,

I am the father of three and my firstborn just told his mother and me he thinks he’s gay. I raised him the way my father raised me, to work hard, love harder, and pray hardest. God has always been #1 in our lives. He is our oldest at 17, with a brother who’s 14 and his sister who’s 13. He had several girlfriends in high school, so this comes as a surprise to all of us. My wife is afraid of losing him. She’s worried I’ll come down too hard on him…

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Candra Anaya

Advice columnist, DearQueer~ Gayly Giving Advice Straight from the Heart. Co-author of bestseller, The Life-Changing Power of Self-Love. https://Candraanaya.com