Dear Queer ~ Multiple Orgasms?
Gayly Giving Advice Straight from the Heart ~ October 2024
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Dear Queer,
My new lady (she’s gorgeous) had multiple orgasms with her ex. I’m nervous I can’t compare. What if I can’t measure up? Help!!! I am an old dog but I'll learn new tricks if given a chance.
Signed,
Sammy
Hi Sammy,
What a great inquiry. Thank you for being brave enough to broach a sensitive topic. In the dozens of questions I’ve fielded so far, you are my first about sex. You are kinda taking my Dear Queer virginity, Sammy- consensually, of course.
First off, if your new lady shared her experiences with her previous partner to illicit a reaction out of you, to set the stage for competition, or to gaslight you in any way, then a big, ol’ red flag is being waved. Run- don’t walk- to your nearest exit. You don’t need or want to be hooked by such juvenile behavior, regardless of how “gorgeous” she may be.
Granted the last paragraph does not apply to you, I assume this information was shared during honest conversations about sex. If this is the case, I applaud you both. You are off to a great start by engaging in healthy and mature sex-positive…
