Embracing the 4th F

Once You’ve Survived Fight, Flight, or Freeze

Candra Anaya

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Photo by Julia Caesar on Unsplash

Christmas was 72 hours ago and I haven’t stopped crying in days. Over the past decade, the month of December has snowballed from one traumatic event into another, resulting in a multitude of experiences producing the fight, flight, or freeze response. Exactly 8 years ago I was in the hospital for my daughter’s birth. It was an extremely complicated…

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Candra Anaya

When I'm not writing, I can be found momming, meditating, or meowing with my Siberian Forest cat, Solstice. https://Candraanaya.com