Hey Kate, THANK YOU for writing this! You wrote a deeper dive that I wish I could have referenced in my advice column to a man trying to help end rape culture (I'll link it here). His inquiry to me, and the article he wrote here on Medium about how he almost became a predator (unknowingly) is so powerful. I'm grateful for these conversations being had and the deeper truths being told. Thank you for being a part of the solution. https://medium.com/@candra-anaya/dearqueer-how-can-men-help-e4b6b3bb9be5