Hi Jeff, thank you so much for being part of this important conversation. I am really heartened by the male allys I am finding more and more of. This gentleman from the UK wrote to me and my advice column (in the US) on how men can help shift rape culture. He wrote one of the bravest pieces I've seen to date. Here is the link if it's of interest to you. Thank you again for the supportive words you write. https://candra-anaya.medium.com/dearqueer-how-can-men-help-e4b6b3bb9be5