I love this piece so much! I write DearQueer (a monthly advice column) and my very first question back in the day was from a butch struggling with identity as her non-binary friends came out. I wish your article had been available to link for her, because you do a fantastic job taking a deeper dive on the non-binary side of things. If you're willing, please link your article in my comments section here: https://candra-anaya.medium.com/dearqueer-369-9339772b4ded
It's never too late to further this conversation, and yours is a voice I'd love more people to hear! Thanks for your great writing.