One good thing to come of this discussion is I am seeing more and more brother allies- more than I've ever seen publicly before. Thank you so much for bravely speaking up and out. I met a gentleman from the UK (I'm in the US) who wrote an amazing and brave piece before this whole bear thing that I bet you'd appreciate. I'll link it here. https://candra-anaya.medium.com/dearqueer-how-can-men-help-e4b6b3bb9be5