Thank you for writing this. I write an advice column, and this month I had a man write in to me asking how he can help end rape culture. I believe reading (and writing) pieces like yours is a great place to start. Thank you for adding your voice to the conversation. Here is my column, if it's of interest to you. Be well~ https://medium.com/@candra-anaya/dearqueer-how-can-men-help-e4b6b3bb9be5